Trapped in the friend zone..

There are so many times when I feel like I can't meet the right girl because of the way I am. It is mind boggling and puzzles me that a girl that I might find myself interested in suddenly drops a romantic interest in me and sees me as a "man pillow" or just a big teddy bear. It never seems to fail that girls simply see me as a great guy but can't see me as a boyfriend or a person to have an intimate relationship with. I always feel stuck like the character in the movie Just Friends. Friends of mine who are girls seem to be able to find a lot of comfort in me as a guy which is awesome but at the same time it sucks because that is all that there is. Part of me is glad that I can be that guy they can come to and be comfortable around but it annoys me when they want to be super flirty and make me think they could have the tiniest interest in me as more than a friend. I have been thinking about this and finally had to sit down at the computer and hash it out over a blog. Don't get me wrong, I love having girls as friends because I can talk to them and get a woman's perspective as well as just caring about them for who they are. I just wish that every now and then a girl would come along that I could date or possibly find myself in a relationship with who could see me as more than friend. A girl who could see me for the person I really am. I have honestly thought before about the concept of being a huge asshole to a girl and see if I would have a better chance of finding a girl that way but that is not who I am. I am not a huge asshole who is into using girls as sexual objects. I am confident that one day I will find that special girl who I will marry and who will complete the other part of me. Until then, I guess I will keep moving on and moving forward and allowing fate and destiny to do its work.